To all good husbands and fathers: Happy Father’s Day!

            If you are lucky enough to have a good Christian husband and father in your life, give thanks to God, and to him, on Father’s Day, June 19.  Have you ever considered what the word “husband” really means?  A husband is so much more than the male half of a couple.  Webster’s dictionary defines him not only as a married man, but also as a frugal manager or steward.  As a verb, “husband” means to manage prudently and economically.  The word “husbandry” is defined tellingly as “the care of a household.”  Most fathers contribute to the financial support of their households, as well they should, if they are able. The bible would have us take this obligation very seriously — “And whoever does not provide for relatives and especially family members has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” 1 Tim. 5:8

           It is a beautiful thing to see a father who takes his financial obligation to his family to heart, but also takes responsibility for their spiritual well-being.  There is an oft-cited Swiss study from the mid-nineties that sheds light on the dramatic and profound effect of the faith of a father on the future faith of his children.  It turns out that, at least amongst the Swiss, church attendance by the father is a much more accurate predictor of future church attendance by his children than their mother’s church attendance.  When a father attends regularly and the mother attends irregularly, the percentage of children who end up attending regularly is 38%, and with a regular-attending father and a non-attending mother, the percentage of regular-attending children is 44%.  In stark contrast, when the mother attends regularly and the father irregularly, only 3% of the children end up attending regularly in their future life.  When the father is absent from church, the percentage of their children who end up attending regularly is 2%. So to those fathers who do not see the passage of faith to their progeny as women’s work, bravo and thank you, you are good men.  Happy Father’s Day.

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About tisawhite

I'm a mother of 4 children. I stay at home and I'm Catholic.
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One Response to To all good husbands and fathers: Happy Father’s Day!

  1. Interesting statistics! I am definitely among the blessed then. 🙂

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